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Do not let the child " gift " was asleep
From;    Author:Stand originally


Parents all without exception is full of to his child anxiously expect, when the child show that sees others is crackajack, many parent regular meeting blame his child without a single redeeming feature. The practice that blames blindly is shoe the goose not only, contrary meeting hurts the child's puerile proper pride. In fact, every child has the ability that hide, even if is clinical on think the child of mental retardation.

Develop the child's potential, the grow into useful timber after be day lays next solid foundations, just each parents ought to be done hard.

Advertent observation is in daily life, the attention observes the child's behavior behaves, be fond of is abhorred, in he and others amuse oneself, chat or read in oneself, when game, can be aware of although do not love to play musical instrument to like to draw however,give him, although do not have patience to have originality however, although not good at one's words is very enthusiastic however, come down these clues records, you can induce the one side that the disposition direction that gives the child perhaps says to be good at, thereby revulsive inspire him.

After creation opportunity understands disposition incline to of the child and be fond of, did not forget to him the opportunity imposes a practice more. For instance, when family birthday, encourage everybody to perform a program, recite essay by turns in the evening every week and publish a result, the interesting thing that allows the child to experienced that day is narrated or the record comes down... more important is, create an opportunity to let the child help at any time, want be his in one's power only, if wash a bowl, pull the land, receive the dress to wait. Do more skilled more so, have hope more, the child just won't shrink back in self-abased in the corner that shuts oneself.

Since give the child the chance,await patiently, be about to await the child to develop latent capacity patiently. Some parents make do not move the child to do household thing temporarily, flat oneself are done; Disrelish the child to won't shop, simply oneself go out; Cognizance child studies bad book, help him inscribe a problem to review... as time passes, the child gives birth to a laziness, the heart thinks anyway parents can ask for help certainly aid, reap where one has not sown of readily take the opportunity to, let oneself " gift " was asleep. So, grouse when parents when the child is lazy, might as well examine one's conscience, whether oneself lack patience to the child, the expressional opportunity the child " loot " one sky.

Give encourage him child to start work do, when the mouth says, should give him the applause that praise and encourages for certain. Because, even if talent, the opportunity that also needs to have a practice will brew confidence, go more suitable more after that. If be blindly blow, criticism only, the child will be so disconcerted that the child carry do not start, also do not agree to try again.
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